Jetset Lust http://jetsetlust.com In search of culture, new experiences, and inspiring beauty Sun, 21 Jun 2020 23:21:31 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=5.4.2 http://jetsetlust.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/01/cropped-jsl-favicon-32x32.png Jetset Lust http://jetsetlust.com 32 32 156634342 Enter Through the Looking Glass http://jetsetlust.com/enter-through-the-looking-glass/ http://jetsetlust.com/enter-through-the-looking-glass/#respond Mon, 20 Apr 2020 23:06:43 +0000 http://jetsetlust.com/?p=97650
Sarah Loven wears Yandy Lingerie Loungewear - Stay at Home

While stuck at home in quarantine for over a month, one must find creative ways to escape and get inspired. For me, that means making my surroundings as beautiful and inspiring as possible. I tend to hone in on a vibe for the season, and transform my space according to that aesthetic… even down to what I’m wearing!

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the looking glass

We all have been living in our comfy clothes during isolation, but that doesn’t mean we can’t look cute while doing it! From loungewear to lingerie, I’ve found several pieces and sets from Yandy that I’m loving right now to stay comfy and cute.

I was watching one of my favorite movies Chéri, and instantly felt a kinship to Michelle Pfeiffer’s 1800’s courtesan character, floating around in her stain robes and lace, inside her luxurious art nouveau townhouse. The world within Chéri is gilded gold and floral, I imagine with a heavy scent of perfume, an air of poetry, and an envious wardrobe of gossamer gowns to choose from. I would be happy to escape here for a while! My own little paradise seems to reflect this taste right now, and I’m content to dawn my lingerie, sip on Champagne, and lounge in the golden hour light on my velvet pillows.

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For those of you looking for the affordable lingerie or loungewear, I’ve linked to the pieces I’m wearing for you below! These links apply a 20% off coupon automatically, or you can use SARAH20 at checkout!

Blue Lace Teddy
Lounge Romper
Satin Pink Set

Sarah Loven lounging at home in Yandy Lingerie
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How to Write & Publish a Book: My Experience http://jetsetlust.com/my-experience-writing-publishing/ http://jetsetlust.com/my-experience-writing-publishing/#respond Fri, 14 Feb 2020 07:28:46 +0000 http://jetsetlust.com/?p=97425

Since my poetry book Les Belles Lettres has been published, I’ve been receiving many messages with questions about how to write & publish a book.

I’m honored to be looked up to regarding these things, but I also find it funny that so many people would ask me these questions simply because I published a book. It’s even ironic because I didn’t know any of these answers either, and spent a whole year learning what I needed to know to accomplish my vision of publishing Les Belles Lettres.

It led me on a whole journey of self discovery and rekindled passion that I never expected, and into an even less expected path with now writing a historical fiction novel. This is part of the reason I tell people that they must go out there and learn for their self- because it’s a personal journey in a way, and I can’t simply give you that experience, or simplify all the information I took in. 

What I can do is share a little bit about my journey and answer some of the repeated questions I receive, and hopefully you will find my story helpful and enlightening!

My Experience

writing & publishing

”I want to write, how/where do I start?”

For those who are just starting out writing, I’ll tell you what I was told by a literature professor of Cardiff University in Wales: the only difference between a wannabe and legit writer is that one of them wants to do it, and the other one DOES it. You just have to start (because it’s what you truly want to be doing!), and learn as you go. You have to be willing to do research. Read articles from other authors. Learn. And did I mention research? Research. A lot! The good news is, pretty much all your answers can be found online.

”How do you write a book?”

When I started my historical fiction novel summer 2019, I had prior experience with writing stories (I did for years as a teen/young adult) but no experience with composing in actual novel format or understanding of layout. I spent a month learning how to compile a book, how to use the softwares, and the different methods/styles of writing. I played around with my writing at the beginning, finding a style and POV that felt right with my natural voice.

Then for the first few months I just wrote a ton, until I figured out my own flow that worked best for me. That flow, once discovered, will be your best friend! When you make it that personal thing between you and your creativity, it becomes a very sacred space in your mind that you end up loving to go to when you write. And I think it’s more about that fulfillment you get from it than just being able to say “I wrote a book”.

”How can I know if people will like my writing?”

The thing is you can’t know if people will like your work. You have to believe in it yourself, and if you truly think it should be out in the world, then you should strive to get it there. Ask friends and family to read some of your writing and see if people generally like it. Get feedback on what draws them into it and why, so you get an outside opinion about what makes your voice unique. Your voice may seem normal to you, but it can be really unique to people outside your brain. Or maybe you have some glimmer of something unique, and other readers can help you see what needs polished. Either way, you want outside input, whether it’s easy or hard to hear. Be willing to take opinions while also standing up for your work.

”How did you publish your book and find success?”

From what I’ve learned, you can spend years writing a book and then years trying to get it out there. There’s no instant success or return, which people tend to believe in this era of instant gratification. There’s only you, your work, and the lengths you’re willing to go for it. For example, my first poetry book is made up of work from throughout my whole life, and took all of 2019 to compile and get printed/published. I get people asking me all the time how they too can write & publish a book, expecting there to be some quick, easy method. There isn’t. That’s why it took both me and my husband working on it together full time for a year, sacrificing time and money for it.

Writing a book and publishing is a serious thing, not to be accomplished on a whim, and I encourage anyone who feels strongly about following this path to be ready to invest so much more than they think, and to do endless amounts of research. (Yes, I said research again, because oh heavens I’m ever so serious!!)

If you’re starting from square 1, without connections or a pre-built reputation in the literary industry, then square 1 is just where you’re at. You have to work your way up, and there really is no arriving! You never stop learning, writing, and pushing your books, even after they’re published. Publishing is only the end of the first challenge! Then you have to actually get your book OUT THERE.

”How long does it take to write a book?”

Unless you’re one of those geniuses that can crank out novels quickly, it can take a whole lot of time. At first I was intimidated by the thought. But I realized that thinking about it and figuring out what I want to write is never a waste of time, it all contributes to making the final product. It counts for something.

I spend a lot of time just pondering my plot and details so I can make all the pieces fit. I don’t always have time to write for long sittings, or often, depending on my content creator work, so I record my ideas and thoughts all the time, and then write on free days in between my work. I actually like having the time to think over things longer because I can then develop the ideas and plot better, and so just write freely and creatively when it comes to it. Of course that’s just one element of what I’ve found works for me, and everyone has their own workflow when it comes to writing and compiling a book.

”How to self-publish or get published?”

This is the question I get the most, and it’s the one near impossible to answer due to the amount of information and the difficulty of the process. It is intimidating. Yes, I published. But no, I didn’t find some easy method that made it possible to do so, as much as it may seem that way. It’s was a huge task that I couldn’t have done without my husband fighting along beside me, and I can’t say it was easy in any way. In fact, it was harder than the actual WRITING! But I accomplished it in a year with full dedication, so yes it is possible! You just have to be willing to go the full mile.

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Behind Les Belles Lettres http://jetsetlust.com/behind-les-belles-lettres/ http://jetsetlust.com/behind-les-belles-lettres/#respond Mon, 23 Dec 2019 22:14:00 +0000 http://jetsetlust.com/?p=97303
Les Belles Lettres Book by Sarah Loven

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Les Belles Lettres

Pronounced: Lay Bell Let(rh!)

Les Belles Lettres isn’t my first self-published book, but it’s the first one to be published on a large scale. 253 pages compiled of select, passion-filled works from throughout my life, plus all my recent writing up until the book was filled at the beginning of 2019. Once I finished writing, I spent 6 tough months working on compiling the book together, cover design, proof printing, and the publishing process. All of which I couldn’t have done without the partnership of my husband, Josh!

I’m more than excited and ready to finally share Les Belles Lettres Volume 1 with you!

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Les Belles Lettres (The Beautiful Letters) is a collection of poetry, prose, and thoughtful musings that come from the deep desire to bring beauty and enlightenment to fellow dreamers and romantics.

In a world where bite-sized, commercialized snippets have been glorified as poetry, Les Belles Lettres is an ode to classical poetry, and a take on modern day prose alike. Inspired by an old poetry anthology one might find in a vintage book store, with the feeling of a newly discovered, yet age-old treasure.

It is a collection of my writings, spanning from across my teenage years, into young adult and womanhood. It is not just poetry, but also a journal, a note to self, and a love letter to the world.

Les Belles Lettres is written for anyone with an eye for beauty and an artistic soul, with no limit on age bracket or gender. An experience encapsulated in words, and divided into 4 chapters: Love, Musings, Inspiration & Poetry.

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Behind the Book

The Cover Design:

When deciding on a cover, I was heavily inspired by the vintage French nrf books. They are very special to me since I collect them every time I’m in Paris. So I wanted to imbue that same timeless magic in my book, and bring a little bit of Paris to readers. Paris has been a huge inspiration to me in recent years, but the beauty of French language, culture, and art has been inspiring me for decades. One of my earlier self-published poetry books was called ‘Poésies’, which in English we think of as a bouquet of flowers, but in French it translates to “poetry”. It only seemed fitting to me then, as my collection of writings has always felt more like a bouquet of words.

The Name:

It only makes sense that, as I’ve finally come full circle these many years later, I return to my roots where I first found my inspiration. My bouquet of pretty words has blossomed into full blown letters… written to myself and to my fellow dreamers. The term Les Belles Lettres stands for any writing that exists simply for its beauty and inspiration, and that too felt fitting for my book title and series. Series…? Yes! There is Volume 2 already in the works!

The Chapters:

My writing tends to revolve around the same topics, which I narrowed down into 4 chapters for the book. I wanted to include not only my full on poetry and prose, but also pieces from my personal journal and shorter thoughts that hold weight for me. Whether you’re lingering in the chapters to read longer poems, or just quickly flicking through the pages for some impactful words, I wanted there to be something for everyone in this book. And it was important to me that these pages offer true value to whoever reads them.

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Love

I wrote heavily about Love when I was a young adult, which filled an entire section of this book. Those fitful years are sometimes some of the most impassioned parts of our lives, and revisiting those writings really allowed me to rekindle that flame in a new way. I felt so much then, and I understand much more now. I realized how important it is to stay in tune with those feelings, and watch them grow and evolve. I’m a very passionate advocate for love (of all sorts), and this is why I made it Chapter 1.

Musings

Throughout my childhood and teen years, I had such an overactive imagination that I dreamed up extraordinary worlds within my ordinary life. Nature was my escape from the pressures I felt growing up, and I often found myself connecting on a very deep level to the earth and her mysteries. The beauty of life intrigued me, because I also felt so much pain simultaneously. I was a very sensitive person, and didn’t know how to handle my gift of discernment. I felt too deeply, saw through people, grasped too much but couldn’t understand the pain people caused each other. I needed the magic of simplicity, the beauty of nature, and the escape of dreams to fight my way through those years. These Musings gave me purpose, and they earned their place as Chapter 2.

Inspiration

During the years of my adult life where I didn’t write so much poetry, I still scribbled down my thoughts and feelings that turned into the Inspirations chapter. These were things that I felt I always needed to remember, or things I wanted to tell someone but didn’t necessarily have the courage to. I collected these thoughts and realized I truly felt the world needed to hear some of these things, and thus they got their own section in the book and make up Chapter 3- dedicated to bringing that positivity or new perspective to someone who might need it. This section is also dedicated to those who love short reads!

Poetry

And lastly, Poetry… the thing that has been with me for years and years. I started writing when I was 13, and poetry came to me naturally around the age of 16. I can hardly believe how my voice has developed since the beginning. I even have a hard time believing some of my old writings could have come from my younger self, someone who had feelings too big, thoughts too deep, and yet not even a sliver of the experiences I desired. Poetry was my way to explore my deepest self and find out who I was, and who I was destined to become. I had stopped writing poetry for several years and didn’t realize at first how a part of myself was missing. Picking up the pen again, as rusty as I was when I began again, felt like returning to myself. And this is when I plunged head first into regaining my voice. It was the beginning of my Les Belles Lettres project.

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Angels in the City http://jetsetlust.com/angels-in-the-city/ http://jetsetlust.com/angels-in-the-city/#respond Tue, 22 Oct 2019 17:28:55 +0000 http://jetsetlust.com/?p=97092 Angels in the City Read More »

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Sarah Loven wears black lace Honey Birdette lingerie in LA

Once in a while, you can have have a wild night. Like meeting up with your favorite lingerie brand in a fancy LA hotel to try on their new collection, take some fun photos, and go home with shopping bags of new lacey goodies to play in later. In celebration of Honey Birdette coming to LA (all the way from Australia), I was lucky to see the new collection first hand.

Angels in the City

My favorite set was the one you’ll see in these photos, because the back of the panties featured a little Eiffel Tower looking design… Paris obsessed much? I know…

This gorilla style shoot was one of the most fun- hanging out with the ladies behind the brand, sipping champagne, and finding ways to rig the set, such as using the floor lamp as a photo light so we could shoot on the balcony. We were surrounded by twinkling city lights in the background, and it was quite magical! A little Champagne, LA vibes, and luxurious lingerie really make a girl feel confident!

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Lavender Skies & Animal Eyes http://jetsetlust.com/lavender-skies-animal-eyes/ http://jetsetlust.com/lavender-skies-animal-eyes/#respond Fri, 11 Oct 2019 20:17:27 +0000 http://jetsetlust.com/?p=97054 Lavender Skies & Animal Eyes Read More »

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This night marked a time of metamorphosis for me. It was Full, Harvest Moon, Friday the 13th, a rare occurrence that won’t be happening again for another 30 years- Aug. 13, 2049. I felt more alive that week than I have in years, like I unleashed something in myself that was a crucial part of me, that I’d bottled up for too long…

Lavender Skies

& animal eyes

Journal Entry - 9.13.2019

Tapping into my wild femininity, and getting close with my dear friend, nature. Saying goodbye to fears, self-consciousness, and inhibitions, and fully embracing my true self- whoever she is, whether she lines up with what society likes or not. And I feel all new confidence where I used to feel held back. I’m the only one capable of fulfilling my potential. I no longer hide, wait for permission, or worry about what people think about me. If they don’t like this, that’s on them.

Because who I am, and being myself, shouldn’t matter if we are all being open-minded and open-hearted. Who I am, so long as I’m aiming to be the best version of myself that I can be (inside and out), shouldn’t hurt anyone else. And so no one has a claim to feel hurt about it. If they do, then they have some of their own insecurities to deal with. Shining your light tends to expose things that used to hide and thrive in darkness. But never let people’s jealousy or negativity be the reason for you to stop shining! Just like nature, we need light to grow.

The Truth About Full Moon Friday 13th

& Why it’s Significant

“Before patriarchal times, Friday the 13th was considered the day of the Goddess. It was considered a day to worship the Divine Feminine that lives in us all and to honor the cycles of creation and death and rebirth. Friday the 13th was considered a very powerful day to manifest, honor creativity and to celebrate beauty, wisdom and nourishment of the soul.

Friday is Venus Day, and we all know that Venus is the epitome of feminine energy. Her energy joins us at the end of the week to honour the days gone by and to remind us that it is important to rest, relax and play.

As a society, we all look forward to Friday (Venus day), and we all naturally find ourselves unwinding and relaxing in her comforting energy. Friday is the perfect day to embrace Venus like energy and to focus on creativity, beauty and sensuality. Venus energy also encourages us to tune into our receptive female energy in order to stimulate our creativity and bring art, music and healing into the world.

The Number 13 also holds an extremely potent feminine energy and is considered to be the number of death and rebirth, creation, fertility and blood.”

– Excerpt from Forever Conscious

Lingerie: Honey Birdette | Boots: ALDO

“There’s so much freedom in
ignoring inhibitions. It’s best
to live like life is short.
Take the initiative.
Make the first move.
Be the fire starter-
the source of the excitement.
Run with the wild ones who
embrace the thrill.
Laugh always, and
forgive those who don’t
understand you.
And most of all,
love to love.”

– Les Belles Lettres, Volume II

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Ballet in Paris http://jetsetlust.com/ballet-in-paris/ http://jetsetlust.com/ballet-in-paris/#respond Fri, 26 Jul 2019 22:04:23 +0000 http://jetsetlust.com/?p=97016 Ballet in Paris Read More »

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Sarah Loven dancing ballet in Paris wearing Paul & Joe Lingerie

It’s a rare thing to see me doing ballet these days. Here in this Parisian flat, one thing led to another and I started dancing. Josh encouraged me to dance for some photos, and then we captured it on video. It’s not often I get to be in a big open room like this one, 5 flights up above the busy streets and all the windows open to let the essence of my favorite city fill the air inside and inspire me. Jazz plays on the radio, and a little old lady watches me from her window across the way- she seems to enjoy it rather than be bothered.

Ballet

in Paris

That’s what I love most about Paris. Arts and creativity is so much a part of the culture that because the people appreciate it, one finds their self becoming more in tune with their artistic side. I’m never more myself than when I’m in this city. I’ve never felt more like I belonged than when submerged into the richness and history of this place.

Dance was such a huge part of my life. Some of you know I spent my entire life until the age of 19 training to be a professional ballet dancer, under some of the best instructors. From Chicago with Watmora Casey  to NYC at Ellison Ballet  to Cleveland with my Russian trainers Inna Stabrova and Dmitriy Tuboltsev from the Vaganova Academy and Bolshoi Ballet.

I learned so much about perseverance, motivation, self-expression, hard work, and elegance. I learned to be my own tough coach, wether through the arts or in life. And it’s because ballet was such a deep seeded part of me that I am who I am, and where I am. I’ll always be thankful for this.

I wish I could live two lives so I could have dedicated one to dance, as it requires your whole body, mind and youth. But I realized at the critical age of 19, that I wanted to chase more than just one passion, and to see what else the world had to offer. And so here I am today!

See my video below to watch me dancing in Paris!

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Versailles at Sunset http://jetsetlust.com/versailles-at-sunset/ http://jetsetlust.com/versailles-at-sunset/#respond Thu, 20 Jun 2019 20:21:23 +0000 http://jetsetlust.com/?p=96987 Versailles at Sunset Read More »

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There’s a certain magic that appears when the gardens of Versailles are completely empty at sunset. The silence, the open air, the astounding beauty of the aesthetics… it is truly a gift to be able to experience it. When the light hits the palace at the westward angle, turning everything to gold, one feels undoubtedly a part of something greater. Like a piece of art, as if you’re submerged into the very living canvas of a masterpiece painting.

Sunset at Versailles

Even when I spent multiple days exploring the gardens of Versailles, it never felt like enough. I honestly say it could take a week to discover every part of the gardens, not including the palaces and the Queen’s Hamlet! 

We spent the day riding bicycles around the huge cross-shaped lake, venturing down some sunny tree-lined lanes that were alive with vibrant yellow flowers. The breeze blew through my hair and I was utterly happy to be there. Of course we were shooting a lot of content for the entire day, so when golden hour hit, we had made our way back to the end of the promenade for ice cream.

By sunset, we walked back to the palace, and that’s where we found we were completely alone in the massive gardens. I won’t deny feeling like a queen myself, with all of it there just for us. I can’t truly describe the otherworldliness of it- one must imagine as if they are the king/queen and freely wandering through their own heavenly property. 

For me to have experienced just a sliver of that feeling, to have stopped and breathed in the silence and watched the sun bathe everything around me in a soft gold… to have wandered the empty paths and listened to the birds sing, it was my personal heaven. Pure bliss. I’ll never forget it.

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A Day at the Louvre http://jetsetlust.com/a-day-at-the-louvre/ http://jetsetlust.com/a-day-at-the-louvre/#respond Tue, 04 Jun 2019 18:29:36 +0000 http://jetsetlust.com/?p=96830 A Day at the Louvre Read More »

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Here’s what a day at the Louvre looks like- wandering the many halls, lingering in the Sculpture Garden, and gazing at paintings until the sun goes down… if you’ve been before, you’ll know the massive size of the museum can be daunting. Some of the rooms contain small paintings, other halls have paintings the size of an elephant. One never knows what they may find around each corner, or whether they might have made a wrong turn and gotten lost. But is that really so bad? Here is a rather huge blog post dedicated entirely to our ventures at Musée du Louvre. I hope you enjoy, and maybe feel like you can experience it vicariously through our photos!

A Day at the Louvre

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Garden of Eden http://jetsetlust.com/garden-of-eden/ http://jetsetlust.com/garden-of-eden/#respond Mon, 03 Jun 2019 19:10:25 +0000 http://jetsetlust.com/?p=96823 Garden of Eden Read More »

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Ever since I was a child I was fascinated with nature. I looked to it as an escape. Every little patch of wild that was still left between the developments in the suburbs, were my imaginary worlds- the places that called to me. In between school stress and bullies, I knew I would be safe as soon as I could get to my wild hideaways. And I always felt such a connection to the energy of the earth- I believed in it’s secret magic.

Garden of Eden

Those were the days of endless cornfields and running barefoot in the grass. I would bring my band of neighborhood friends to the edge of our development where the farmlands began, and we would blaze a trail through the tall, tall corn, creating a maze so we knew where we were going, but our predators wouldn’t. We were in control, the rulers of our wild little world.

Before I was a teen, we moved to a different state where in stead of farmland, it was trees. Lots and lots of trees. I wasn’t used to the closed in feeling of the woods, but I liked it. Hidden, shady, and mystic. I used to see energy in the tree trunks, some sort of life that was silent and reassuring. Like no matter what went on around it, no matter what chaos and pain humanity felt, that tree was steadfast and simply grew with its gnarled rough bark to protect it.

I would walk to the edge of our neighborhood where there was a secret hole in the chainlink fence, and I could escape to the new secret wild place- a place with giant rocks jutting out from the earth, covered in carpets of furry green moss. Trees sheltered me from the world, and I would slip down the steep hills, from tree trunk to tree trunk, to explore the ravines of the woods. I would discover new hidden places that most people probably didn’t even know about, places I wouldn’t run into anyone. I would bring my friends there later, showing them the dried up river bed with soft white sand at the bottom of the ravine, and taking courage in the number of our group to explore even further.

Out west and now an adult, I sometimes forget the magic I used to find in the hidden places of nature. But I still look to nature, noticing each plant I’ve never seen before. Sucking the sweet smell of wildflowers into my lungs and taking note of the fragrant scent. On long drives I look into the distance, to the trees, the canyons, the riverbeds, and fields. I never forget the wild places, my sort of Garden of Eden- a perfect place safe from the world, safe from people who can cause pain.

This place here in these photos is one of those places I drove past for years, every day on our way to and from home. This spring in California gave us a superbloom like no other. As one patch of wildflowers comes and goes, and new one springs up in another place. All around me is color and life. This little corner where the tree bends low, and the sun paints it amber in a streak of luck, because most everything else is shaded by then from the tall canyon walls… I finally ventured out to this tree to shoot and attempt to capture the essence of the magic I found there.

I hadn’t stood in this spot yet, and seen it from this vantage point. Only ever from the road. And how I forget that everything from the car looks smaller and goes rushing by, like it’s unimportant. Just a glimpse, a blink. But when I stop my forward motion, and change my perspective… wow, a whole world opens up that I only ever saw the surface of. You see, it’s all about changing your perspective. Sometimes not just by changing where you stand, but by how deep in you go. And how you must stop, to truly see what’s around you.

I don’t know how often people get to do this nowadays with the constant rush of life and the pull society has on us. We are pulled away from the natural beauty and source of pure energy that rests in the wild places, in the soil and the fragrant air. We forget that out, away from the city and the suburb, the air is purer, healthier, rejuvenating. That little bit of wild magic- that escape…most the time it’s just what we need.

Dresses: V Chapman Studio | Gold Heels: RAYE via Revolve | First Jewelry Look: Nashelle Jewelry
Second Jewelry Look: Bijou Limon

Photos edited with Sarah Loven Presets

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